Has this relationship become toxic?

I went out with my boyfriend for about six months before we moved in together. A couple of years back, I lived with this guy and it all went really wrong. After that, I became sort of reluctant to have another boyfriend, and I stayed away from the dating game for a while. I was still dating my lovely gents at London escorts, so I was not without male company at all. But, I did start to feel a bit lonely on my days off from London escorts, so I started to date again. I am not sure it was the right thing to do.

Instead of just going out clubbing after my London escorts shift, I started to go to the gym. I met this nice guy called Joe. We got on really well from day one, and I felt there was a real connection in between us. Joe did not have an issue when he found out I work for London escorts. Also, he did not seem to be the kind of guy who told all his mates, that he that he had a girlfriend who worked for London escorts. It was great and we were getting on really well.

When Joe asked if he could move in with me, I hesitated a bit. He said that his landlord wanted his flat back and he was having a hard time finding affordable accommodation in London. I did hesitate a little bit, but in the end I gave in. Joe had become really special to me and we had a lot of fun together. He did not earn as much as I did at charlotte London escorts but that did not worry me at the time. Joe did promise me he would help me to pay the bills, and I believed him.

After a couple of months, Joe picked me after I finished my shift at charlotte London escorts. He did not normally used to do that, so I felt that something was wrong straight away. Joe said he wanted to talk and I did not have a problem about that. It seemed Joe thought he could continue to pay the bills, but he still wanted to live in my flat. I was not happy about that as I worked hard at London escorts to make sure I could have a good future lifestyle.

To my surprise, Joe told me that he had seen my dating diary and had copied all of the phone numbers of the gents I was dating at London escorts. He also had a lot of their names and he would contact them if I did not let him stay in my flat. I was really taken back, and did not hesitate to kick him out. I realised I had been used and abused again, and been in what had actually been a toxic relationship. In the end, Joe did not contact any of my gents. He ended up sleeping on a friend’s sofa, and it was from this friend, I found out Joe’s secret. It turned out he had a terrible gambling habit and that was why he wanted me to pay for everything. Apparently he owed people thousands of pounds.

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